How can you say that love is true?

I don't really know how to say that love is true...but I do have some ideas from a movie i have watched before.
These are some signs to know if it's already true love, based from the movie Got To Believe starring Claudine Barreto and Rico Yan:
1. there is a spark whenever the two of you see each other.
2. you feel uncomfortable having him/her around.
3. you always think something's wrong with you whenever he or she is near

It can never be clearly explained...how someone get to feel true love. But as for me, there is no such thing as true love, it is a matter of knowing and dedicating ones self to someone important.

Why sometimes our blessings seem a disaster for us?

There are times that what other people consider as blessing is not true for us who does receive it. It comes to a point like that when you feel that a good thing that happened to you has also caused a lot of bad things in return. Love can be a good example.
Love is indeed a blessing to everyone but then, once it enters your heart, confusion, commitment and extreme emotion follow. It can be such a wonderful thing for a moment but not forever. At a certain point, you will be experiencing sacrifice and pain. Surpassing all of those will still lead you anyway to happiness.
So, this question is not a big deal after all. A blessing is still a blessing and no matter what we have, we need to wholeheartedly accept it.

Why do some people derive pleasure from misfortune of others?

People have that selfish nature at some points...
It is a bit weird to see people talking about the misfortunes of others and them crossing the borderline. I do experience hearing and seeing people being so interested of the bad thing that has happened to a neighbor or a friend, in Filipino "pagchichismisan".
That attitude seems to be a part of our culture. It serves as the recreation of those people who have nothing to do at all. I find it really irritating to see such things. Why can't those people realize that the mere fact that they were talking about someone else bad experience is like adding more problem to that person?
I guess, we just have to respect personal lives and we should not make fun of others' misfortune.
We have to remember that we all have our own misfortunes to accept,and before intervening to others, let us first resolve our own and who knows? Maybe you will be able to help someone else
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